OPEN HEART

 



On those days of navy-blue shorts, some are in love because of both having Apsara pencil, Pokey Man Bag, Ben Ten Exam Board, same colored sharpener, getting corrected answer paper very next to your girl or boy, keeping your copy with her copy in a bundle to be corrected and many more similarities. Yes, those are what we did find a girl or boy in school days because of. Some are more authentic so as had punished together for not writing the homework or imposition either. Some boys still remember the page number in English Text Book in which we had the word Love. Some boys may give a pencil to a girl without asking it back or for alternate. Because they do not had wanted it back. This is kind of attitude exactly similar to the paying bill in the restaurant. We are grown up but still we do not pay for others. We never choose a product unless sorting lowest price first. We are not penny-pinchers but still want to remain as thrifty at least up to finding a job. How we could have thought to pay by father’s money still without buying a single razor to have a good shave.

         The ceremony we had attended after completing SSLC provided a renovated platform for stargazing. Narrating with friends by sitting upon the desk about the girl who was at the event is the best conversation to have after having lunch until we find any lecture walks towards our classroom or the study bell rings long. As I read in a teen article, the lady in traditional attire with jasmine who walks urgently here and there in the marriage ceremony obviously would have been derailed the attention of many young men. We also had the tough time when we were had been pursuing SSLC and PUC. Relatives cares more about your marks than your health, weather or annual agriculture yield either. So, we used to skip programs on those days. It is better to attend the events as much as possible when you are being a student. Once you pass out, people start asking for your job, where about and women may often be asked for their marital interest. It is ridiculous but better stay away from those relatives from the day you pass out until you inducted for an eminence. It is very hard to people when we work for less reputed environment or atmosphere. This fact also be eligible to be included with those factors which rules reputed job is highly competitive and hard to attain.


                      The world has been changed from who smiled first to who texted first. People use emojis more than stretching chick to express. Dopamine started to flow bit by bit than droplets. User interface raises more trust issues comparing to naked eyes. Feelings expressed as status. People can judge another based on their status updates. If you ever post something weird, people will notice and may reply instantly. Once my sister alleged that I’m in love! for updating the status with melodious song irrespective of its tune and melodiousness! The only way to divert their attention is keep posting irrelevant to our lifestyle. They definitely denigrate you based on your status until you divulge yourself in apex. Everyone has their own taste or interest about posting. We always expect someone’s status based on their interest they used to post. Whenever you post something preternatural, they start unveiling your cerebrum.  


                Not everyone in the world is looking for girlfriend or boyfriend just to share the feelings and routine. Some want to meet their life mates before the society do patent. There also some who loves without any expectations. It is the best ever experience everyone should have at least once in lifetime. But it should be before marriage! Among these, few are in a new box of who have married their loved one whom they loved without their knowledge. Usually, dilemmas arise when come into contact each other. Contacts leads to trust and trust tends to have expectations. Predicaments leads us to update status by setting the privacy into share only with. Some may express publicly, just because of they want their feelings to be mooted. They may feel better by so. They upload for someone but other may anticipate that it is upload because of him/her. Everyone wants love and wanted to be loved but never leave their repute. Does it provide the pleasance to sustain the love? Crore’s people love one another. Lakhs may come into contact. Only thousands of them may have a mutual feeling. Among them, Hundreds may have the end-to-end love. Only tens of people get Marry. But number of those who dared to face the society and led the love life are only nanoscopic. As Mahabharatha shloka says “Marriage happens only between those are equal in love or wealth either”. There is no other way or third way indeed. Although having love each other or having eagerness to communicate, people hesitate to break their repute norms. Love and Friendship are the two comes top of list where we should not maintain the supremacy. It may sometimes essential in grouped friendship, but it will stir the love indeed. Everyone should think that they often have the text box in their chat not only their loved ones. You have to scroll or find by searching their name just to watch their profile or last scene. Off course it is world’s toughest work to do for the introverts.   

                                                                      

    To be continued...


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